Making Love
“You sure do write about sex a lot.”
Yes. That’s true, but I didn’t expect this. I’ve never cared much either way about sex, honestly. It’s not on my mind that often… not that you’d believe me with all this Love and Making It talk.
But something happened to me after my second baby was born and sex has become my yoga, my running, my self-care, my way back to loving my body and learning that my “self” is more than what is just in my head. I am not just a soul or an intellect. I am a body too. And this body is good – as good and perfectly created as my soul. Sex has become a the way I grow as a human, a Christian, a woman. My body and soul are reuniting and getting to know each other. This is why I keep talking about sex. I believe our bodies are good for way more than short bursts of pleasure from food or quick orgasm. Our bodies are much wiser and complicated than we give them credit for on a normal day.
Ask anyone who has a workout they absolutely love (a runner, a yogi…) and they will tell you how that exercise brings them joy and endorphins and knowledge and self confidence and health.
Movement. Courage. Vulnerability. Fun. Play. Appreciation.
This is sex. It’s not just mechanics. We are making love. It’s not easy, but it should be fun. And it can grow us as humans, if we let it. Growing in the areas that make sex great, also make life great.
The keys to great sex are trust, bravery and love.
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Sex is complicated, for sure. No one has been handed a clear and […]