Hi Friends! Welcome.

Take a slow, deep breath.

Count to 4 as you inhale.

Hold all that breath in your lungs as you count to 4 again.

Then, when you are ready, breathe out slowly and fully.


Welcome to this space. It is as much yours as it is mine. May it be a rest when you need it + a kick in the butt when you need that too. All these tiny pixels, created by fingers on keys, mean something to me + I hope they mean something in your life too.

We will talk about bodies + souls here. We will talk about love + making it. I am a pastor, speaker, writer, and a sex educator.

So, now that I’ve made every possible person slightly uncomfortable, let’s see what good we can do in this uncharted territory. Please proceed wisely and know your own boundaries. love, Nicole


Body full of Soul is a series inspired by the annual Write 31 Days venture.
Everything is Connected. We are whole beings and it matters what you do with your body and how you think about your body.

Let’s set aside a little time each day in October to give attention to the miracle of being human.  We are made of stardust and the breath of God, after all.


Body full of Soul

All of the essays + pictures + sensual delights
will line up here for your attention.



  1. C.S. Lewis Said Something – on having and being

  2. Touch Me, Please, So You Can Touch Me – on angels and animals

  3. Imagination and Kissing – Anais Nin and me

  4. Good Night’s Sleep – relaxing

  5. Pique Your Curiosity – on Parker Palmer and the wildness of your soul

  6. Prayer for Love – seeing with new eyes and closeness of heart

  7. Life is a Freakin Miracle – presence and a Bible reading just for you

  8. Get Over It – let’s be brave and let’s make changes

  9. Glass Half Full – but that glas, though

  10. Loving Yourself – it takes a triangle. Part 1.

  11. Broken Bowls and Homes for Souls – melodrama and broken dishes

“You are pure soul and made of the ground.” – Rumi

You are a Body full of Soul

Body and Soul